Life after the dumpster
Or maybe some people always need a dumpster? As Hoarding: Buried Alive winds down its 7th season it decided to take us back to three of its participants and see how they fared after they appeared on the show. It was messy.
Hoarding: Buried Alive was originally devoted to having the individual doing most of their own clean-up as they tried to overcome their compulsive hoarding. Over the years the show has added in more mass haul-aways, a la Hoarders, in an attempt to make the process more TV friendly. Though more realistic, the small amounts of progress shown in the earliest episodes of the show undoubtedly left a lot of viewers unsatisfied. We want complete transformation, dammit!
So more and more, that’s what we’ve been given. So what happens after the psychologist, the team of haulers, the eager volunteers and the TV cameras all leave? We got to see how hard it is for compulsive hoarders to continue the work on their own.
Of the three participants featured, none was sporting a house ready for the cover of Home & Garden. That’s hardly surprising, given that they were all stage 5 hoarders when they first appeared on the show. But two of the three hadn’t completely crapped up their homes and seemed to be making a deliberate, slow effort to keep cleaning out and sorting through their hoard. The third did a lot of finger pointing and blaming for his backslide and the condition of his home. All 3 were amenable to a second chance clean up with friends, family, organizers and volunteers.
It was interesting to see both how far people had come in their attitudes toward their “stuff” and how deeply ingrained the hoarding is in their psyches. No matter how pretty their houses look at the end of an episode, these folks are going to be fighting this disease for the rest of their lives. Revisiting them made one thing very clear – without family support (and tough love) they were not going to progress. Compulsive hoarding clearly isn’t a disease that can be “cured” by just picking up the mess.
I like these follow up episodes – they bring home the reality of the disease and show how important it is that the participants continue to have family and friends encourage them, stay in contact with them and fill some of their emptiness after the cameras stop rolling. I wish both Hoarding: Buried Alive and Hoarders would do more of them. You can learn more about Hoarding: Buried Alive at TLC.com, more about hoarding TV right here on Movie Rewind at Everything Hoarders and you can download full episodes of H: BA from Amazon.
Sue reads a lot, writes a lot, edits a lot, and loves a good craft. She was deemed “too picky” to proofread her children’s school papers and wears this as a badge of honor. She is also proud of her aggressively average knitting skills She is the Editorial Director at Silver Beacon Marketing and an aspiring Crazy Cat Lady.
Comments
Lea
On weekend visits, my 2 toddler love playing in my hoard. They love to climb over and dig tunnels underneath. They rarely comment on the smell or rodents.
Areefeh
I just watched an episode for a second time and this one really sunk in because of Floyd's babies.I 'm really happy that truckloads were taken away.Mold was cleaned up but really I think there should be some volunteers to […] Read MoreI just watched an episode for a second time and this one really sunk in because of Floyd's babies.I 'm really happy that truckloads were taken away.Mold was cleaned up but really I think there should be some volunteers to dig up the whole place level it and plant fresh grass for the children and dog then move in a new donated trailor.And maybe his older children should have dinner once a week there helping with grocery shopping and healthy eating habits.Maybe the older kids can send a person once a month for kitchen bathroom and sheet washing.Maybe go to the salvation army and get sheets and clothes and how about Walmart pillows.How bout a church near by ?Really Put him on social media or the local news.There are toys donated all the time.Even dog food from forgotten harvest.People are very generous and this man needs support.He needs a couple friends and confidence maybe some counseling. A little socializing.Maybe free early chidcare and preschool.Some donated books.These kids need friends.I see nothing around them. Read Less
Lola
My solution: send hoarders out for a mini vacation. Then light a match and/ or bulldoze that crap! Why don't the psychologists tell them how sick they are?! Seriously! These ppl are sick delusional pout of touch ppl that […] Read MoreMy solution: send hoarders out for a mini vacation. Then light a match and/ or bulldoze that crap! Why don't the psychologists tell them how sick they are?! Seriously! These ppl are sick delusional pout of touch ppl that need intensive therapy. Read Less
jakline
Why are the names of the 3 revisited hoarders not revealed? I was also interested to learning what happened to Caryn featured on Hoarders: Buried Alive whose moldy house was slated for demolition.
Blake
to jakline
I'm still waiting to see this one